My long time friend, RaShan Frost shared some truth on Facebook about his upcoming wedding. I hope it blesses you.
“I’ve had a lot of people ask me if I was ready for the wedding and my response has been the same. It doesn’t matter if I’m ready for the wedding, it’s gonna last 45 minutes. The real question should be am I ready for the marriage? Many people will invest time, money, and effort to make sure they have a great wedding and honeymoon but don’t invest the same in their marriage. When you do that then you can’t be surprised when the stresses of marriage come and it collapses under the pressure. The wedding is signing day but the real work happens when you hit the field of life. You always train for the field! Likewise train for the marriage. Lessons learned.”
That is so true. Most people don’t realize that marriage is a job. You have to take the bad and the good. Marriage is what you make of it. If really love someone you will pray and ask God to help you and your spouse to work hard on making your marriage loving and respect each other.